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[gerbie]

Today I had an exchange of thoughts with my boss. This turned into a discussion, then into an argument. When at some point he made a patronizing gesture about a (valid) point I made, I decided to turn around and leave his room. I´m not arguing if my motivation is doubted. I can´t argue with incompetent people who try to win arguments on their position, who ignore knowledge and turn into macho´s. Two minutes later he came steaming into my office, shouting that this was no way of communicating and that I wouldn´t dare walk out of his office again in the middle of an argument. I seem to have hit a spot I guess. My career options within the school probably took a blow today.

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Big boss man

[rogermellie.livejournal.com]

Funny how when the boss is losing the argument or can't continue the discussion he gets angry, is he a total megalomaniac?

[ypolita.livejournal.com]

that happens everywhere?!! I thought that was just americans! And the business world. I fantasized that teaching would be a way to get away from dealing with power issues...i hate it

[boreal.livejournal.com]

If you are the boss, its more fun to just call the person out. "Did you intend that statement to be patronizing? Because that's what it sounded like..." Usually freaks em out. But you need to know your definitions of the various negative and manipulative traits well. :) Of course if you're not the boss, as in this situation, then its pretty much a gamble and you lose either way. Time to bring in arbitration... !

But really all I wanted to say was: What an asshole. That sucks. Hopefully he'll sleep on it, realize he was having a bad day and things will be better this week.

[harns.livejournal.com]

Vervelend...en nu?!