I've never understood that either. I used to have a thing in my userinfo that said "If you add me, I might or might not add you back. Give me a chance to get to know you first." I don't know if it ever helped.
By the way, you might be interested in the community blog_sociology. It's full of things like that.
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Date: 2003-02-24 09:37 am (UTC)By the way, you might be interested in the community